So, this year we have cut back our spending voluntarily and now out of necessity. As a result, my birthday week is pretty tame. I usually plan the whole week out and buy myself gifts I know no one else will buy me. Dinner out a couple of times to collect my free birthday meals or desserts. This year, nada. No big deal, actually, because as a result of our decision we've realized that so much of what we bought was wasteful and unneeded. His unemployment is at times worrisome. (I find that I tend to sacrifice things for myself so that he can have things because I know how hard it is for him to be out of work. He'll says to me, "Get it if you want it". But I always talk myself out of it.) I still buy yarn occasionally, but only with money I make off the stuff I sell on eBay. As for everything else....
So, Baldwin and I are coping. LOL. Ok, Baldwin's not very happy, but that's just how he is. He's a man.
I may, however, buy myself a new pair of Converse because I NEED them. I may even bling them out and call them my "happy chucks" and I'll only wear them on special days! Rhinestones, studs, or sequins?
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